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  1. zliter
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    She left her Cockatoo with me for 3 months. I spent hours every day teaching that bird to just say one phrase. "Someones a Bitch". Never would say it for me though. Ex finally came and got her Bird, took it to her Mothers, a week later my phone rang at 3AM, and I could hear the bird in the background loudly saying "Someones a Bitch". I nearly wet myself laughing as I hung up the phone.
    LOL... Now that's FUNNY...

  2. retzdarraiter
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    YOUNG GIRLS and ALCOHOL!!

  3. Shebhertezz
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    retzdarraiter, Your life is so simple!

  4. tvillart67649
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    Sorry thangs went south on you but like everyone else has said, it gets better with time. Just keep yourself occupied doing whatever when you are not on the bike. Do not think you have to "rush" to get back into the dating game as rebound romances rarely work out either. I tried the councilling bit with my last ex (2nd of 3) and it was a waste of time as far as saving the marriage went but it did help me figure out just what I wanted to avoid if there was to be a next time around (which after 15 years of being single again, there was). One of the last sessions I attended back then, the councilor came right out as soon as I walked in and told me my marriage was over, go get a lawyer, get it over with, get on with my life. I took his advice and wasn't charged for the session. But I did get a bit of revenge on the ex. She left her Cockatoo with me for 3 months. I spent hours every day teaching that bird to just say one phrase. "Someones a Bitch". Never would say it for me though. Ex finally came and got her Bird, took it to her Mothers, a week later my phone rang at 3AM, and I could hear the bird in the background loudly saying "Someones a Bitch". I nearly wet myself laughing as I hung up the phone.
    That is so wrong, but so funny. Did she give the bird back to you?

  5. zhovman
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    Hell no. I did not want her to get the darn thang to begin with as they make noise all night long. But since she did, it turned into a great revenge tool (one of several as it turned out in the end-none that would physically harm her, just psycological). Point being, Ex's sometimes leave a means to get over a relationship that in a VERY satisfying manner and I was lucky enough to have been able to benefit from it. Not saying that revenge is the only way but it sure calmed the hurt and helped me get back on track. After all the mess was over and done with, she wound up paying for the divorce, court cost, lawyer fees, and DNA test for the baby she got knocked up with by someone else. Totaled out in the THOUSANDS of DOLLARS. I had a really hot lady lawyer that went all out to get the dirt on the EX and used it in court against the Ex AND the Ex's lawyer (getting him dis-barred in Md, but that is another story).
    The bottom line is booze and wimmins may get the hurt knocked down a little but psycological revenge has a better chance of resolving hurt .

  6. tvillart67649
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    Hell no. I did not want her to get the darn thang to begin with as they make noise all night long. But since she did, it turned into a great revenge tool (one of several as it turned out in the end-none that would physically harm her, just psycological). Point being, Ex's sometimes leave a means to get over a relationship that in a VERY satisfying manner and I was lucky enough to have been able to benefit from it. Not saying that revenge is the only way but it sure calmed the hurt and helped me get back on track. After all the mess was over and done with, she wound up paying for the divorce, court cost, lawyer fees, and DNA test for the baby she got knocked up with by someone else. Totaled out in the THOUSANDS of DOLLARS. I had a really hot lady lawyer that went all out to get the dirt on the EX and used it in court against the Ex AND the Ex's lawyer (getting him dis-barred in Md, but that is another story). The bottom line is booze and wimmins may get the hurt knocked down a little but psycological revenge has a better chance of resolving hurt .
    Dude you are pure evil.

  7. zhovman
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    Tacgtriwer, How are you doing? Getting in any quality ride time? Didn't mean to steal the thread. The revenge thing really worked out well for me with the first and second EX's (the first really did the revenge thing on herself thinking it would get to me but it backfired on her, another long story for another time). Yes, I went the booze and wimmins route but I found out that, as I said before, rebound relationships rarely ever work out and the booze just made my head hurt most mornings. The revenge was much easier on the wallet and the body (and was also a no-brainer when it all came out in the end). Not that I am saying revenge is the only way to go, just that it worked out for me. Everyones coping mechanisims are different and how you cope with your loss is unique to you. Once you figure that out, you will have the battle won. Ride safe Tacgtriwer, have a great life....

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